Sunday 29 April 2018

Future: You Are Responsible for It

 Future: You Are Responsible for It


A farmer went out to plant bean seeds one day and at the end of the planting season, he discovered he had done everything wrongly. He was angry and gave up on his effort. He gave the farm to another man, who saw his mistake and corrected it.


In life things happen in ways that we never planned and large percentage of it happens as a result of our carelessness. There are so much mistakes that should have been avoided, but they happened any ways because we were insensitive to our faults.

The future is a day ahead of today which is known as tomorrow. The outcome of our tomorrow's accomplishment is based on our today preparation. Don't ever think tomorrow will take care of itself, rather you take responsibility on how you want it to be. If it doesn't work according to plan, take responsibility and plan again. You are responsible for your future.

Don't gives excuses, but take the challenge of action. As much as you are responsible for the kind of food you take, you are also responsible for the things you do. Your future is in your hands. What you make out of it depends on how you want it to be.

Everyone is looking into the future. Scientists undergo daily research with facts and inventions that has made the future better than now. Years ago, computers were massive with less function. Now, almost all homes have a laptop which is portable with more functions. This is how scientists have been able to leverage on the future. Years from now will be better because further research are in effect on how to improve life.

If you must improve your world or future then you must spend quality time on research., which gives you the time for development. The more development you experience in a specific aspect of your life, the better you become in that area because your future reflects your mind picture.

Every great man have a specific future they have carved out for themselves and they remained consistent in it. It's like an artist drawing an image. The image is firstly in the mind and made visible on paper by consistent drawing of lines, shapes and colour to form the actual image. The same way, you must consistently work on your area of expertise that you want to see the best result. This represent a part of your future that must be actualized.

Author: Alabi Isaiah 


Source: http://ezinearticles.com/?Future:-You-Are-Responsible-for-It&id=9901124

Saturday 28 April 2018

THE POWER OF DEEP LISTENING

THE POWER OF DEEP LISTENING

Have you ever spoken to someone who made you feel like you were the only person in the world at that moment? Who seemed truly engaged and interested in every word that came out of your mouth? How did that make you feel? Important? Understood? 
This is the power of deep listening. Deep listening is more than a valuable social habit; it is a transformative communication tool. With deep listening, you are not only allowing yourself the time and space to fully absorb what your conversation partner is saying, you can actually encourage him or her to to feel heard and to speak more openly and honestly. And this is a key step in developing rapport with someone. 
To better understand how to interact and communicate more effectively with others, we spoke to body language expert Jan Hargrave, one of our Leadership Academy speakers, about the core tenets of deep listening:

EYE CONTACT

“By maintaining good eye contact, you are demonstrating to your conversation partner that you are fully engaged and interested in what he or she is saying. A good guideline to follow is the 80/20 rule, in which 80% of the time your eyes are meeting your speaking partner’s, and 20% of the time, your eyes are roaming as you gather information to say.”

PRESENCE

“The average person speaks between 135 and 160 words per minute, but the average person’s brain works between 400 and 600 words per minute. This means your mind is going a lot faster than your conversation partner’s mouth, which makes it easy for your mind to drift. It’s up to you to stop your mind from shifting away from the conversation and to be truly present. Not only will you be able to fully absorb what your partner says, you will be able to respond in kind, which makes them feel appreciated and understood.”

NONVERBAL FEEDBACK

“There’s nothing worse than speaking to someone who gives no verbal feedback. It’s like talking to a wall. Make the effort to give the occasional nod, smile, or other sign of recognition to your conversation partner. These nonverbal cues may seem trivial, but have tremendous impact by showing your interest, understanding and involvement in the conversation.”

CONNECTION

“When you are speaking one-on-one with someone, position your body in a way that creates a safe and welcoming space for him or her to speak openly. Lean slightly in, open up your chest, pull your shoulders back, and fold your hands gently in your lap or on the table in front of you. If you are standing, form a reversed hand steeple, in which the fingers come together to form a point. When someone steeples in the lap area, it means they are confident about what they are hearing.”
Source: https://www.tonyrobbins.com/mind-meaning/the-power-of-deep-listening/

Friday 27 April 2018

How to Explain Things Better and Make Others Understand Your Ideas Easily


What is the SEE-I method?






Image via Mountainminddesign.com
SEE-I is an easy-to use and methodological critical thinking technique assisting people in clarifying their ideas.1 It stands for the following: State itElaborateExemplify, and Illustrate.
Let’s examine each element of SEE-I:
  • State it: Clearly and succinctly state the concept or idea in a single sentence or two.
  • Elaborate: Explain it further in your own words.
  • Exemplify: Provide concrete examples and counter examples of the concept.
  • Illustrate: Provide a picture, diagram, metaphor or analogy of the concept.
Essentially, SEE-I begins with a concise statement of the concept (S), followed by further elaboration in your own words (E). Then you are to provide specific examples and counter examples of the concept (E), Lastly, you end with an illustration of the concept (I).
Let’s examine the following example of SEE-I:
  • Concept to understand/explain: Critical Thinking
  • State it: Critical thinking is a self-directed process by which we take deliberate steps to think at the highest level of quality.
  • Elaborate: In other words, critical thinking is “thinking about thinking” (metacognition) in order to make it better.
  • Example: Critical thinking is an analysis, an evaluation, and improvement. For example, it is an analysis of thinking by focusing on the parts (or the elements); an evaluation of thinking by focusing on the quality (or the standards); an improvement of thinking by using what you have learned.
  • Illustrate: A great interactive illustration of Critical Thinking (Analysis – Evaluation – Improvement) is the Online Model for Learning the Elements and Standards of Critical Thinking.



Image via CriticalThinking.org

How to apply SEE-I to explain stuff (Step-by-step guide)

Let’s examine a step-by-step approach you can use to apply the SEE-I method.

Step 1. State it

Identify the concept or idea you wish to communicate – clearly and succinctly state the concept.
Example: Learning is the gaining of knowledge, understanding, or ability.

Step 2. Elaborate

Using phrases such as: “In other words,” to further expand on your concept.
Example: In other words, learning is a process where a person gains specific knowledge. It involves different degrees of progress. The learning process occurs through stressful repetitive perception allowing neural networks to adapt to the repetitive input. True learning is the internalization of the knowledge being learned. I know I have learned something when I can not only repeat the information, but when I can explain it, use it, and integrate it along with other knowledge.

Step 3. Exemplify

Using phrases such as: “For example,” to provide an example plus a counter example to your concept.
Example: For example, a child slowly learns to ride a bike by being guided, practicing, and falling down. A counter example is repetition of the same mistakes over and over again.

Step 4. Illustrate

Find an image, picture, or design your own image to present your concept (i.e. use a metaphor or analogy as your illustration).
Example: Learning is like a sponge absorbing whatever liquid it comes in contact with, yet does not get saturated.
Summing it up
The SEE-I method is a way to provide a clear and concise narrative to explain any concept or idea along with an illustration. In other words, the method allows you to further paraphrase your idea while providing strong examples supporting the concept and counter examples opposing it.
The method clearly expresses an individuals understanding of a concept through a narrative and strong illustration through the use of a metaphor or analogy. In essence, it allows you an easy (and extremely simple) way to explain anything to anyone.
For additional information on how to use the SEE-I method, read Learning to Think Things Through: A Guide to Critical Thinking Across the Curriculum by Gerald Nosich.
Source: https://www.lifehack.org/710722/how-to-explain-things-better?ref=category_section_post_158865


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Sunday 22 April 2018

PRODUCTIVITY HACK: DEEP WORK



Wondering how to increase your productivity? This video looks at a concept called 'Deep Work'.

Inspired by Cal Newport’s book “Deep Work: Rules for Focused Success in a Distracted World”.

Why the 10x Rule is Vital

10X IS NECESSARY FOR SUCCESS, PERIOD.

What You'll Learn in this Article: Too many people underestimate the levels of effort it takes to succeed big, and the only solution to the effort is 10X levels of actions.

INTRODUCTION

For every project in which I have ever been involved, I underestimated the time, energy, money, and effort necessary to bring my project to the point of success. Any client I targeted or new sector of business into which I ventured has always taken 10 times more mail, calls, e-mails, and contacts than I had originally predicted.
Even getting my wife to date and eventually marry me took 10 times more effort and energy than I had calculated (but it was worth every bit!).
Regardless of how superior your product, service, or proposition is, I assure you that there will be something you don’t anticipate or correctly plan. Economic changes, legal matters, competition, resistance to converting, too new of a product, banks freezing up, market uncertainty, technology changes, people problems . . . more people problems, elections, war, strikes—these are just a few of the potential “unexpected events.”
I don’t say this to scare you but instead to prepare you for where the biggest opportunities exist. 10X thinking and actions are vital; they are the only things that will get you through these events.
When you have underestimated the time, energy, and effort necessary to do something, you will have “quit” in your mind, voice, posture, face, and presentation. When you correctly estimate the effort necessary, you will assume the appropriate posture.

SUMMARY

Any target attacked with the right actions in the right amounts with persistence is attainable!
Be Great,
GC
Source: https://grantcardone.com/blogs/grantcardone/why-the-10x-rule-is-vital

Friday 20 April 2018

Taking Your Health Seriously As A Hardcore Entrepreneur



Are you guilty of putting your business before your health?

Check out this video from Gary Vaynerchuk where he talks about knowing his weaknesses when it came to health & fitness and how he filled those voids.

Success is Creating Opportunity



ARE YOU CREATING OPPORTUNITIES FOR YOURSELF TODAY?

In the article, you'll learn... what success really is.

INTRODUCTION

My job is not to make you successful, my job is to create an opportunity for you to become successful. I'm not going to catch a fish for you, I want to teach you how to fish. Are you ready to learn?

MY STORY

I hope you are as fortunate as I have been in your life and in business.  Through a series of good decisions and a lot of hard work and being extremely disciplined with my money, investments, and most importantly the people around me, I have accomplished more than I ever imagined possible.  
I have learned a lot about success that they can’t and don’t teach in school—mostly from watching those around me.  
I have seen a lot of guys who started way ahead of me blew it all. 

WHAT I'VE SEEN FROM OTHERS 

I have seen multiple buddies in the past believe that once they became successful, they felt they were obligated to share their success with those around them.    
I watched Ralph in Vegas give employees money to gamble.  Bob bought his people fancy watches when the company did well, and Tom would give people advances on money not yet earned. They all went broke.  
I watched this other guy, unnamed dude, climb the ladder, started making money and he did the same thing. Overpays his people, advances money, makes bad deals and always picked up the bill.  Even when others wanted to pick up the bill he insisted on being the guy. 
One day I asked him, "Do you feel obligated for everyone around you or do you feel guilty for being successful?”  He immediately answered, “Yes to the first and I am not sure to the second!”  He went on to say, "I believe success is about sharing my abundance with everyone around me.”    
He asked me, “What do you think?”  I told him, “When I create success in business it creates opportunities for others and no more. I will never rob a person of their choice to create abundance for themselves out of this.  I will prod, push, inspire, and even hammer that person to do the right thing but I will never give someone what they can do for themselves."  

SUMMARY 

I believe my job is to create success and provide people around me with opportunities to improve their station in life.  Every time I have simply given someone a handout or more than they earned they either blow it or resent me or both.  It is up to the individual to take the opportunity and convert that into prosperity and abundance.  

AN OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU
What you don’t know about money will cost you money. Like everything else, the world is changing and that includes money.
Here are a few things you will learn from my best seller Playbook to Millions

#1 SAVING MONEY IS NO LONGER A WORKABLE SOLUTION FOR THOSE WHO SEEK FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE.

#2 THE FIRST RULE FOR INVESTING IS INVEST IN YOURSELF UNTIL YOU HAVE 100K PUT AWAY, THEN INVEST IN CASH FLOW MECHANISMS ONLY.

#3 THE TRADITIONAL INVESTMENT CONCEPTS WERE BUILT TO BENEFIT BANKS & WALL STREET—NOT YOU.

#4 A HOUSE IS NOT AN INVESTMENT IT’S A LIABILITY. OWN WHAT YOU CAN RENT TO OTHERS AND RENT WHERE YOU LIVE._

#5 THE 3M’S OF MONEY—MAKE MONEY, MANAGE MONEY, MULTIPLY MONEY. 

I did a ten-hour course on this topic and would love for you to have it to secure your financial future.
The colleges didn’t teach you, your parents couldn’t teach you, and Wall Street and the Banks won’t teach you this.
If you are like me you have always dreamed of financial independence.  Saving is not the way. You must increase your income, then correctly put that money to work in assets and businesses that will pay you when you aren’t working.
I'm creating an opportunity for you today to have more success in your life with my Playbook To Millions. The only question is, will you take advantage of it? 
Be Great,
GC

Source: https://grantcardone.com/blogs/grantcardone/success-is-creating-opportunity

Saturday 14 April 2018

4 Time Management Tips For Work-Life Balance



Work/Life balance is a hot topic in this day and age where everyone seems to be working longer and harder than every before. How do we get the balance right?

For most this can be tough, so here's a short video with some great advice on how to do just that!

15 Ways You Are Wasting Time During the Day (And How to Stop)

Do you ever feel like you just don’t have enough time? Are you always rushing from one responsibility to the next with no time for yourself? Do you just have the feeling that you are wasting time?
You’re not alone.
According to a Gallup poll, 61 percent of working Americans claim they don’t have enough time to do what they want.1
On top of that, 68 percent of people feel they aren’t getting enough rest (with significant crossover between these populations likely). 2
But is this really a result of being overloaded with responsibilities? Or is it simply a product of poor time management?
In this article, we’ll examine all the ways that you’re wasting time, and how to stop doing so… starting right now.

Compensate for Wasted Time

Chances are, you gravitated to the first possibility—after all, being busy has become a kind of status symbol in the United States.
But if there’s even a chance that you’re wasting time without realizing it, you could be saddling yourself with far more hours’ worth of responsibilities than necessary on a daily basis.
Accordingly, you owe it to yourself—and the people around you—to take notice of the time-wasting habits you didn’t even know you had and start applying solutions to correct them.
You might be an effective time manager, but that doesn’t mean you’re perfect. Chances are good that at least some of these tricks can help you stop wasting time:

1. Track Your Bad Email Habits

You’re probably wasting time on email without realizing it, whether it’s taking too much time to draft your messages, allowing your email threads to spiral to unmanageable proportions, or allowing unproductive contacts to interfere with your day.
We spend 6.3 hours a day checking email, so it’s almost certain that a large chunk of wasted time is happening in your inbox. 3 The only way to tell for sure is to use an analytics app such as EmailAnalytics to analyze your email habits and pinpoint where you’re wasting the most time.
Once you recognize your problem areas, come up with a plan for how to address it. For example, you might resolve to start fewer conversation threads, or set a 10-minute limit for yourself when drafting a new email.

2. Just Say No

It’s hard to say “no” to anything, whether it’s a new assignment from a boss, or a social gathering from one of your best friends. Unfortunately, each “yes” you give is a new segment of time you’ll have to spend doing something that may or may not be beneficial for you in the long run.
Saying “no” could free up hours of your time with each instance, and as long as you’re polite and respectful, there likely won’t be any consequences. As an added bonus, saying no can empower you to make fewer accommodations, and possibly command more respect from your boss and teammates.

3. Make Faster Decisions

You spend more time in a state of indecision than you realize. You might have an internal debate over whether to start that project now, at 4 pm, or just wait to start it tomorrow morning.
You might not take action on a task because you know there’s a possibility you’ll delegate it in the future.
In any case, every minute you spend thinking about your decision is a potential minute wasted—assuming there’s no new information to consider. Aim to make faster decisions, and you’ll cut this time waste out of your life immediately.

4. Set Limits and Stick to Them

How often do you check your social media feeds throughout the day, or find yourself wandering to that mobile game you downloaded?
Chances are, you waste more time on these intentionally time-sucking apps than you know. Fortunately, there are ways to set time limits for yourself so you can reduce this time to a fixed, reasonable figure.
If you use an iOS device, you can use Apple’s Guided Access to restrict the accessibility of other apps on your phone, or if you’re on Android, you can use an app like AppDetox to set careful limits for specific apps you know to waste your time.

5. Take Plenty of Breaks

In the middle of your workday, it’s natural to think that spending just one more hour on work, rather than taking a lunch break, will result in higher productivity—but that’s not necessarily the case.
Working too long without a break will make it harder for you to focus on work, which means a task that ordinarily takes 30 minutes might take 45 minutes or even longer.
Research suggests the ideal work-break ratio is working for 52 minutes, then breaking for 17—but this is going to vary based on the type of work you’re doing and, of course, your individual preferences.
The bottom line is that you need to take more breaks throughout the day if you want to make the most of your working hours; otherwise, you’ll waste energy.

6. Flip Complaints Into Action

Everybody complains from time to time, whether it’s a cathartic venting session or a bid to gain social support for a common problem.
Unfortunately, complaining is a poor way to spend your time; complaints generally won’t make you feel better, and won’t do anything to change the situation that frustrated you in the first place. Instead of complaining, create an action item.
For example, if you’re angry that you’re stuck in traffic, make a mental note to leave for work earlier tomorrow. If the deli gets your order wrong, opt to try a different deli next time. If your app isn’t working, switch to a different task temporarily.

7. Disable Distracting Notifications

Distractions may seem like they only waste a few seconds of your time, but research shows it takes more than 23 minutes to fully recover your focus after getting distracted. 4
Notifications from things like email and instant message platforms, regardless of their intended purpose, will almost certainly pull you away from whatever task you’re focusing on.
Consider turning them off; you might be offline for a few hours, but you’ll get so much more done. Depending on your workplace culture, you may need to send a proactive heads-up to let people know when and for how long you’re going offline.

8. Maximize Your Commute

Unless you’re working from home, you’re spending time commuting every morning.
With the average commute in the United States being roughly 25 minutes each way, that probably means you’re wasting around 5 hours a week just in necessary travel. Since there’s no way to get rid of that time, your best option here is to maximize that time.
Taking public transportation could free up your hands and attention so you could focus on work on your way in (and save you money at the same time).
Riding your bike to work could save you a trip to the gym later. And if you’re stuck driving, you can take hands-free conference calls or catch up on audiobooks to make the most of every minute.

9. Skip Meetings

Meetings are prime opportunities for time waste because they include so many people, are often poorly organized, and take up a significant portion of your day.
The average worker spends a third of their time in meetings, and that time is often spent unproductively. If you spend 9 hours a day working, that equates to 3 hours a day in meetings, or 15 hours per week.
Imagine if you cut the number of meetings you attended in half, or if you reduced your hour-long meetings to 30-minute meetings—you’d instantly save 7.5 hours every week.
Turn your meetings into email updates to keep information flowing.

10. Cut Your Losses

Human beings are subject to the sunk cost fallacy; it’s a cognitive bias that makes us reluctant to cut our losses on projects and battles that we’re already heavily invested in.
For example, let’s say you’ve spent 10 hours working on a new advertising strategy, but it’s not seeing above-average returns.
Logically, you’d be better off switching to a new strategy, but because you’ve already invested so much time into it, you might be tempted to spend even more in an effort to recoup your losses.
Learning how to cut those losses and get out early can save you countless hours—and thousands of dollars.

11. Delegate Tasks to Others

Many modern professionals are reluctant to delegate, under the pretense that training someone to do the task would take longer than doing the task yourself.
This may be true, but it’s a short-term strategy; training someone to do a frequently recurring task is an investment that will spare you from ever having to do that task again.
You may take a time loss in training today, but you’ll avoid time losses indefinitely in the future. Don’t be afraid to delegate your low-priority tasks if it means getting more time to spend on what you do best.

12. Do One Thing at a Time

Multi-tasking is demonstrably proven to harm your performance in each task you try to coordinate; in other words, doing one task at a time ends up being a more effective option.
It may seem like managing two separate windows at the same time is the most productive thing to do, but it’s putting undue stress on your brain and is probably decreasing the quality of your work in both areas.
Instead, focus on just one task at a time; you’ll make fewer mistakes, and will probably end up finishing both tasks faster anyway.

13. Declutter Your Space

Whether you manage a physical workspace or all your important files are digitally stored, organization matters.
If it takes you an extra 5 minutes every time you need to track down a piece of information, you won’t be able to get much done throughout the day.
Taking an hour to systematically reorganize your workspace will save you far more than an hour of time in the long run. And, if you’re still working with paper filing systems, consider switching to a cloud-based program; it’s hard to beat the efficiency of a digitally assisted search.

14. Lower the Bar

The common advice is to “shoot for the moon,” aiming for high objectives to motivate yourself to perform better.
But constantly struggling to achieve these high goals could be counterproductive.
Not only will you spend time on tasks that aren’t optimized for your own abilities, you could end up damaging your own morale when you don’t achieve them; after all, the real secret to happiness is setting modest expectations, both for yourself and the people around you.
Setting lower, more achievable goals will help you use your time more effectively, and allow you to set more realistic timelines.

15. Mind Your Phrasing

When you claim that you’re “busy,” you probably aren’t thinking about all the tiny responsibilities that make up your day, or all the optional tasks you elect to take on (either unwittingly or out of habit).
Changing your phrasing can help draw your attention to these micro-time wasters. Instead of saying “I’m too busy” for a given task or opportunity, say, “that’s not a priority for me right now.”
It’s a subtle psychological trick that will help you realize where your own priorities lie, and draw attention to the daily habits and routines that are taking up more time than you notice.
Are you really too busy?
You’re the one setting your schedule.

Reclaim Your Time

Many of these strategies require you to change a habit, or make new ones, which isn’t easy no matter how committed you are to solving your time-waste problem.
Fortunately, improving your awareness of these problems is half the battle, and any steps you take to improve those problems are going to have a measurable effect on both your productivity, and your work-life balance.
If you’re having trouble getting started, start with just one of the tips above and try to optimize your working style to improve it over the course of the next week.
There’s no shame in a gradual approach, and it might ultimately be better for helping you retain positive habits. So stop wasting time today; you’ll be much better off.
Source: https://www.lifehack.org/698160/15-ways-you-are-wasting-time-during-the-day-and-how-to-stop?ref=content_bottom_related